Kids, to have or to not

For as long as I can recall have always said I never wanted to have any kids. I have been looked at as being strange/crazy for thinking this way or even much more saying it out loud. And no, I am not barren. As that seems to be the first thought of many I have had a discussion with regarding my belief or saying. Or she doesn't want to lost that sexy shape of hers and other strange one “your man must be shooting blanks". Doesn't a woman have the choice to choose whether or not she wants to bear a child.

I keep seeing what is happening in society how it has failed to protect the innocence of a child. So why would I want to bring my flesh and blood into such a world.

My heart aches to see children not get the proper nutrition and care they should. If I am unable to take care of myself at this time then how will I be able to care for a child or I'm I the only one we thinks this way?

Having a child involves so much you have to provide the children with mental, physical financial and spiritual support and stability. I know no one is prefect but at least one of these should be fulfilled. I hate seeing men just going around and have kids here and there and everything.

So let me be the choice is up to me. It is my body!!